We all have things we want to be able to do in our lives, and sometimes we end up getting to where we want to go. If we work hard, have a direction and remain focused things generally work out the way we had hoped. But not everyone is organized and focused, not everyone is able to maintain drive to get to where they really want to go. If you are that person sometimes things can seem overwhelming and you seem to constantly get distracted by life that your goals never seem to get any closer.
What if you created a road map for yourself? Took the difficulty of focusing right out and just followed the steps laid out for you? The good news is that this is actually pretty easy, but it does take some insight and some ability to look ahead. And then you will need to stay committed to it too; you need to follow your map. But here is how to make one.
- List what your goal is and when you would like to achieve it by. Be specific about this, if your goal is to worry less say something like: I will be ok with last minute changes to plans by the end of May 2014.
- Outline what qualities or skills you need to develop to make that a reality. If your goal is more task oriented, outline what steps you need to take to get things done. Following the example, you might need to develop flexibility, better communication regarding spontaneous changes, and better relaxation techniques.
- Write yourself a recipe for success. Give yourself deadlines when you would like to have developed your skills or complete your tasks by. When you pace yourself and are constantly checking in about when things should be moving along, a big goal seems so much more manageable. You may want to have 2-3 great ways to relax by the end of January, be comfortable and effective in telling others that you are stressed or anxious by mid March, and be more flexible by May.
- Share your goal-map with someone who can keep you on track. This is like a workout buddy or an accountability partner. This should be someone you can count on and someone who is invested in your success! Find a time to check in every week or two weeks so they can give you encouragement and help you meet your goal.
By following this process you are taking the fuzzy edges around the things you know that you want for you life at some point in the future, and you are trimming them away, defining things and framing a new lifestyle for yourself. When you start your outline process you will see how much more you can achieve and how doable your goals really are.1
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